I agree with you in that we all have biases.
And of course everyone is free to reject or accept anything as evidence as they see fit.
After all, people are the same in that they are all unique.
We bring our own background, upbringing, culture, preferences and way of thinking into any decision we make.
This means that people who really investigate and think about what they believe or not (like you) can still believe in God(s) and be religious.
While (some/many) people on both sides of the spectrum of belief might not be able to understand why the other side reached a different conclusion, they should not conclude that the other ones are necessarily stupid.
However, I must strongly object to the false dichotomy you proposed:
Those who are not changed by God, will live in rebellion and will hate Him. Its really one or the other.
To me this statement is equivalent to an atheist calling everyone who believes in God deluded or assume they are not thinking clearly.
Also, the statement is not true at all.
There is another option.
I was not changed by God. I begged Him to help me believe in Him.
Nothing happened.
According to your statement, I must now hate God. I don't. I simply do not have any reason to believe He exists.
I don't hate God at all.
If I ever see any reasons to believe again, I gladly will, without resentment.
No hard feelings towards God.
Does one really live in rebellion if the authority one does not obey does not really exist?
My behaviour might not always be according to (Bible) God's wishes, but that is not because I resist his authority.
It's because I have never been able to ever verify there even is such an authority to rebel against.
If that authority becomes clear, I'll gladly obey (if the demands are as could reasonably expected from a loving authority that has good intentions).
And of course, if I were not an atheist but a religious Jew or any other non-Christian religion, we would have this very same discussion.
If I were a Christian, I would have to have this same discussion with Jews, Muslims and many others. Regardless of which God one obeys, there is always another group claiming you live in rebellion against (their) God.